It can be difficult to decide whether or not a marriage is over. Something that is such a serious commitment cannot be ended that easily. Rarely do two spouses come together and realize the marriage is over, rather one will reach a breaking point and file for divorce. This can usually go badly, with the opposing spouse reacting emotionally and dramatically. Attempts to save the marriage may be made, but is it really over?
Here are some signs that a marriage may be over.
Conflicts are not resolved
Conflicts happen within marriages, and that is normal. However, conflicts must be resolved; otherwise, disagreement will stay within the environment and influence future issues. If there are numerous conflicts with no resolution, and the parties can’t come to a resolution then that is a possible sign that the marriage is over.
No affection
Affection is an important part of a relationship and shows that you care for each other. When spouses have emotionally disconnected from each other, a lack of affection accompanies it. If the spouses have emotionally disengaged, then it is also likely that they do not like each other very much, another sign of a broken marriage.
Preparing for single life
Many couples who have fallen out will start to ‘prepare’ themselves for single life. This can come in the form of exercising and getting into shape, different hairstyles, fashion or even looking for a new career. This last point is common with women who are keen to no longer be dependent on their husband’s earnings and start looking for a new career.
There are a variety of reasons that a couple may fall out of love. It can be difficult to end something as serious as marriage, and hopefully the above can help you decide whether or not it is time to file for divorce.
